严格。挑战

我还需要对自己再严格一些
还不够严格
一直在改进的同时一直发现自己的弱点
小弱点也好,大弱点也好, 可以的话,我都想要克服
至少,目前为止,我还看不到我想看见的我

我对自己的要求很高,可是我对别人可以要求很低(除了自己的男朋友)
现在当然还没有到自己的要求

不断的挑战自己,我的心情是喜悦的挑战
没有怨言.要做就必须心甘情愿的做.

我知道人无论如何都不是完美的,
但是在我心里我有属于自己觉得完美的条件,
所以我要不断的努力
虽然我看见了自己的进步
但是我还需要更努力

我相信每个人都有无限的潜能
我当然不例外
所以我相信我可以做得更好
加油!让人生更有意义,让生命更有价值



(因为看到爸妈的照片,更加觉得,自己还需要再严格,自己还做得不够好,还做得不够多,
我需要更加的努力.我不是只是为了他们，我也是在为了我自己 :) 我相信这些挑战，这些辛苦，这些严格，会换来有价值的未来, GAMBATEH ~~   )

人的成长

成长是必须的
人要成长可以很容易也可以很难. 因人而异.

成长可以是走向负面也可以是走向正面
性格的本质,思考的方向,执着的程度会影响成长的动向和速度
有些人的成长是负面的,所以越来越负面,越来越不开心,最终人生没什么意义
有些人的成长是健康的,所以人生会变得越来越坚强开心幸福

负面的成长,只会阻碍一个人走向幸福的道路
心得不到释放就别谈什么想要过的乐观
不懂的活的自在的人,如何成长到最后也会徘徊在痛苦中
放不开就免谈拥有

自爱的人不会让自己活在痛苦中
要懂得如何从痛苦中迅速的得到释放,活得开心
活得有价值,有意义是必须的
没有需要白费宝贵的生命在痛苦中徘徊
如何思考,如何想,决定一切
放开执着会过得快乐些

活得快乐是需要学习的
有些人很快掌握，有些人却很难
总之，这不是一夜之间马上学懂的
常记在心里，记得如何快乐的秘诀，记得要放开执着，记得要乐观

人的本性的确很难改变,可是要改变还不至于不可能
无论任何事情都有可能
在于
你反省了吗
你了解自己了吗
你努力了吗
你尝试了吗
你坚持了吗
还是....你已经放弃了？

A day in Mid Valley

We went to Mid Valley after done with the interview session.
 Christmas Decorations are all around Mid Valley, i am totally in the Christmas mood :)
I am so excited after i saw all those Christmas trees and castle although i see no SnowMan there :(
I can't wait to pull out my camera and started to take photos.

Made a Christmas tree as our background, I think it is quite obvious right? XD

half face gone, failed. XD

yea.. I brought her along that day XD

so I managed to take a photo together with her . :) 

After we had a check in Rotten Tomatoes, we decided to watch this movie.
End up it is a nice movie though. I would give it 7.5 marks out of 10. :)
Learn quite a lot form this movie although there are no pretty and handsome actors and actress inside.
I came to learn about "A person who failed in him or her last relationship doesn't mean that she or he going to fail the next relationship again. This is because human always learn from failure"
besides that, "Life would be happier if we stop complaining on things that is unnecessary. In the other words, Try to be positive and live with an open heart".
"Our perception towards a person not always 100% accurate even if that person is our dearest one. "
"Don't get influenced easily by other people especially on how peoples comment about your friends and family. People do make mistakes and people do have their dark sides,nobody is perfect, but we can't deny that people do have the possibility to become a better one."
There are so much more values that I have learned form this movie. :)
By the way, it's a comedy and there is no subtitles for it. haha. A good chance to train my listening skill though :)

After movie i bought a chocolate bar. Ya, i bought a chocolate bar, such a random thing.

I just can't explain why am i buying this.

I grab this sushi too. Look at the price! It's only Rm9.90 for 10 salmon sushi!!!

hahahahah

AFTER that, we went home. 

such a tiring day for both of us. 

Rush from melaka to Kl for interview 

non-stop till night and then now have to drive back. 

Thanks for the one who drive, chau yen shen :) 

It's a pretty nice day for me :) 

Thanks :) 

Love

I want you as long as you want me to.

I love you As long as you love me and as long as the sky is above you.

We are travelling through time together everyday of our lives
All we can do is do our best to relish this remarkable ride .

Ps: all the best for both of us today!, good luck my dear :)

December marks the end of 2013

DEcember marks the end of a year.
I have started off this month with a busy yet a meaningful day.
1St of December, a day tat i duty as a byakuren in gaikkan. So, i started off a brand new day and also a brand new month with smiles :)
Listened to great stories of different peoples.
Things that make my December a fullest,exciting and meaningful month!
1. As PEACE PROPOSAL speaker in UTEM on 4th DEcember.
2. Midterm month.
3. my beloved second brother's wedding day on 15th !! Woohoo..a day that gonna full with loves.
4. Soul Sistaz kpop dance competition on 19th DEcember.
5. Christmas eve!
and lastly... to celebrate the end of this year and to welcome a brand new year...:
6. 31st december 2013! XD
December is another challenging month for me. I must face these challenges with a determined n undefeatable heart.

雨天的心情

雨天，半夜不停的下雨
以前很怕雨天，因为缺乏安全感
以前总觉得一下雨就感觉天会塌下来
以前也觉得下雨的时候特别寂寞特别伤感

可是现在此时此刻发现自己对雨天没有了寂寞的感觉
只是觉得雨天凉凉的，蛮爽的
呵呵

证明自己的心境改变了
心里没那么不安了
所以对雨天的不安也没有了
恭喜自己 哈哈

好好享受阴凉的天气吧

雨天的不安与寂寞，再见了 :)